Sola Allyson Speaks on
Women Relying On Boyfriends Financially
Renowned gospel singer, Sola Allyson, has shared thoughts on women’s financial independence in relationships.
In a recent video, Allyson emphasised the importance of self-sufficiency, drawing from her personal experience in a past relationship with a wealthy partner.
Allyson recounted how she consistently declined her boyfriend’s offers of financial support, only accepting the exact amount she needed on occasions when she required assistance.
According to her, she returned any excess money, reinforcing her stance on financial independence.
In her words: “You start dating someone today, next tomorrow your phone has spoiled. During my generation, anyway I don’t know but as for me, if you even want to give me money, I won’t collect it.
“I was once in a relationship where my boyfriend was very rich. When he wants to give me money, I won’t collect it. On the days when I need money, if it’s N500 I need and he gives me N5000, I will remove the N500 and give him his N4500 back.”
Reactions followed her comment with many sharing their thoughts on it.
@Mima_the_1st:“Wetin I go do now , na to call igwe make them organize award for you.”
@Eniola___sarah:“Mommy why I go Dey reject free money? Na your time be that ooo. The only thing I’m accepting with you is the one you said two days into the relationship the girl go Dey talk say her phone don spoil.”
@Moren.dstall:“in this tpain regime, oya nao.”
@Bewa____ji: “e stoopeeeet na so i dey do the girl is gooood na like this i start oooo but another girl dey collect extra.”
@Rikkyflefle:“Fr some ladies still do this .. eg me I no get one inch of courage to ask for money .. I have the I can do it mentality even Doug deep down I want a baby girl treatment.”
@Miss.smithie:“Dey play my fans.”
@Crownoloniyo:“All those CAN you afford me type of Girls. Will fight tooth and nail against this.”
@Jhay_porch:“Immediately you toast naija babe her rent go just expire asap and she dey hungry at the end she go come tell you say I have a boyfriend.”
@Proudafricanman:“The generation she’s talking about died in 2000.”
@Niniolajadesola12:“Mam na those type of women who don’t ask for anything men take for granted this days”.
