Kaffy: Why I Separated From my Husband

Kaffy: Why I Separated From my Husband

Celebrity dancer, Kafayat Shafau also known as Kaffy has revealed why she separated from her husband Joseph Ameh better known as Papi J.

Taking to her Instagram page on January 10, 2022, the dancer shared a video, a snippet from her new podcast and explained why they had to split.

According to Kaffy, marriage was supposed to be an alignment of destinies but that was not the case in her marriage.

Speaking further, she said that separation was not supposed to be bitter or toxic.

She said:

“Marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies driving towards a place God wants for them. And mine didn’t really work out that way.

“Rather than looking at somebody as the problem, sometimes you could be the problem of that person.

“Being an enabler of someone’s not being able to do what they are supposed to do can also be that you’re not supposed to be in that space.

“So there was a lot to learn and there’s still a lot more to learn.”

In the caption that accompanied the video, the dancer stated that separation was not the end of life for the parties involved.

“Separation isn’t the end of life for both parties involved. In fact, if you both are honest about why you have to go apart, you will realize how much better life can be,” she wrote.

The dancer added, “Some people make it back, some don’t . What is ultimate is the outcome borne out of love!”

Kaffy was married to Joseph Ameh, a former drummer of Nigerian duo P-Square and they have two children together.